There are milestones, and then there are milestones. In my books, turning ninety years old falls squarely under the header of an incredible milestone.
Later this month, my maternal grandma is on track to do just that.
My grandma – or Grannie (she prefers to spell it with an “ie” ending) was in 1930 as the Great Depression was just starting to get underway.
Her parents came north for the Klondike Gold Rush of the late 1890s and, even though they didn’t strike it rich, loved the untamed Yukon wilderness so much they stayed there for decades after the final waves of eager gold-seekers had crossed the Chilcot.
She was the last of eight children – seven girls, and just one son. And as such, heartbreakingly, these days she is the sole surviving child of her family.
Like many people, my grandma is multi-faceted induvial. Strong and, at times, stubborn. Caring, nostalgic, loving, and tough as an ox.
She’s had to be that way. Life, from her birth in the freezing arctic to battling and overcoming cancer for the first time in her 80s as been anything but a cakewalk.
Severe chronic illness struck her early in life – proceeded by tuberculosis (which, much like breast cancer, she was able to beat). Widowhood entered her life at the age of just sixty, proceeded many years prior by the untimely death of her only son.
She has lived in various spots across North, Central and South America, can draw far better than she lets on, never remarried, is a packrat in the extreme, played a mean game of tennis for decades, and makes the best darn orange chiffon cake I’ve ever tasted.
At (almost) ninety, my grandma still lives on her own in the same house she’s called home since the early 1960s.
She drives (during the daylight hours), volunteers, has never had a smartphone, and savours her near-daily walks along a street that, over the decades, has morphed from a sleepy rural road to a multi-lane thoroughfare.
There are many ways in which we differ, but no shortage of others that we share in common. Through thick and thin, my grannie has never failed to inspire me and be a source of unwavering strength in my life.
Sadly, due to the need to social distance and remain as safe as possible, a family birthday celebration of the kind befitting nine decades of life will not be possible.
We’ll still do all that we can though, of course, to help ensure that she feels loved, celebrated, and honoured come the big day.
Card, gifts, flowers, phone calls, and other forms of socially distanced connecting will stand in for the birthday fete that up until the pandemic struck, we’d long imagined holding for this awesome occasion.
October Birthday Girl Heritage Scrapbook Page
My Grannie is rarely one for fuss, pomp, or pageantry. Her style is understated, somewhat tomboyish, and fairly classic.
In creating a scrapbook layout to honour her October birthday, I wanted to celebrate the season, while staying true to this style.
There are layers and details, but I intentionally kept things a bit refrained – opting to let this vintage photograph of her, taken sometimes around the late 1940s, sparkle as the deserving star of the show.
For the background of this scrapbook page, I turned to one of my oldest and most favourite tricks in the paper crafting book and used a piece of corrugated cardboard as the base layer.
Sometimes I do this when I know that I’ll need a lot of strength to support all the layers and embellies on a given project, and sometimes I do it simply because I love the look and texture that classic cardboard offers.
Over the years, various companies have sold precut pieces of cardboard (some of which were even billed as being archivally safe), but I’ve rarely purchased them. Cardboard is plentiful in most peoples lives or can easily be obtained, if you don’t have any to hand.
That said, if creating a project that is archivally safe is paramount to you, I’d highly suggest either buffering the cardboard with a base layer of acid free cardstock or paper, tracking down acid free cardboard, or using an archival preservation crafting spray, such as Archival Mist (product and brand share the same name) or Make It Acid Free from Krylon.
As my grandma’s birthday falls in the heart of October, I went for a full-on autumn colour palette, leaning heavily on earthy tones that are reminiscent of nature while also leading the layout a vintage feel that is in keeping with the yesteryear photo used here.
How to create this autumn themed family history scrapbook layout
This layout began with a 12 x 12 inch sized piece of cardboard which I lightly distressed, inked and painted the edges of (black ink, gold paint).
Once dry, I topped the cardboard with layers of black and orange cardstock, turning down two of the corners and tucking pieces of tulle + small chipboard circles beneath the folds.
Next came the layers of patterned paper, including the central decorative shape piece which I painted the edges of with grey acrylic paint.
I added the trim, matted and selected a position for my photo, scattered various stickers and embellishments around the design, created my title, and handwrote my journaling on a piece of polka dot print paper.
This layout came together quickly and is not very complex, which I feel really suits the type of person my grandma is: no nonsense, lovely, and timeless.
I adore how the floral print on the decorative edge central piece of paper brings a ton of visual interest to this layout, with zero added bulk. I’m all for dimension as a general rule, but sometimes it’s fun to scale things back a tad on that front, which is what I did with this LO.
Scrapbook page tips and tricks from this project
-Make friends with cardboard! As touched on above, I adore working with the material in my paper crafting projects. Be as it an entire 12 x 12 inch base, a small accent, a die cut shape, or anything in between, the sky is the limit!
You can distress, sand, paint, stain, ink, stencil, embellish and do oodles more still to cardboard. And of course, you can leave it as is – either with the top layer of thin brown/kraft paper removed or simply as it stands intact now.
I like to save clean, not too thick pieces of cardboard from packaging, mailing materials, and suitable boxes. That way, when a project arises that could benefit from some cardboard, it’s always at the ready.
-Don’t hesitate to dress up decorative shaped papers all the more. In this case, the scrolling/scalloped edge piece of Kaisercraft paper was gorgeous, but I felt it could use a little something-something extra. Acrylic paint to the rescue!
A purposely shabby chic style coating around the edges was all it took to jazz up this elegant paper and help it feel more individual to my own project.
–Have fun with photo corners! I’m a big fan of photo corners and utilize them often on my layouts. They can work like a charm with pics from any era, but when crafting with antique and vintage photos, they have an extra special ability to look fantastic.
In no small part, this stems from the fact that photo corners were a mainstay of the albums where many images from decades past were originally housed. As such, they can instantly help to lend a lovely yesteryear feel to most any project.
Whether you buy premade photo corners, use a die or punch, or freehand them (hint, basic triangles, as with the golden orange paper used here, do the job fabulously!), photo corners might just be what your next project needs for a bit of extra pizzazz.
-Layer your trims. A great way to add subtle – or not so subtle, as the case may be – interest, colour, and texture to a scrapbook page is to layer two or more trims.
In this instance, I began with a thin layer of tulle, followed it with a wide layer of open design gold hued trim, then topped that with some fun and funky blue and green fringe trim in a colour palette that looks as though it was borrowed from a peacock.
When layering trims, try to ensure that some of each layer remains visible. A mix of solid and airier trims, as used here, can look especially fab, but all open weave or all solid trims can rock just as well, too.
-When using multiple word and/or letter stickers on the same page, aim for a degree of continuity between them. Colours, sizes, fonts, etc can all help. This lends your finished page a cohesive, beautiful look.
Though, that said, sometimes it’s great to mix things up, toss the rules out the window with your lettering and word stickers and just have a blast mixing things up.
-Butterflies and feathers might not instantly scream fall to the same degree that they do spring and summer, but that’s no reason not to utilize them in autumn related projects – especially if they’re in seasonal hues like the earthy browns and blues here.
If you don’t have premade fall coloured butterflies or feathers, consider stamping or die cutting and colouring some in the fall shades that best compliment your project.
Products used to create this fall birthday scrapbook page
-Piece of brown/kraft coloured cardboard measuring 12 x 12 inches (30.5 x 30.5 cm)
-Black, golden orange, and pale aqua cardstock
-Fall tree real photo print paper – Fall Harvest Paper Pad from American Crafts
-Cream and mustard yellow polka dot print paper – Autumn Crisp 6 x 6 inch Paper Pad from American Crafts
-Decorative scalloped edge paper – Hidden Treasures Collection Token from Kaisercraft
-Black ink pad – Dew Drop Tuxedo Black Ink from Memento
-Orange chipboard flourish and both circle shaped chipboard pieces – Autumn Song Chipboard from Bo Bunny
-Various word and image stickers – Rhapsody Element Stickers from Photo Play
-Hello Word Sticker – Bloom Element Stickers from Photo Play
-Fall word bunting banner sticker – A Perfect Autumn Afternoon Element Stickers from Echo Park
-Orange letter stickers – Citrus Alphabet Stickers from Bo Bunny
-Gold glitter letter stickers – Marquee Love Letter Stickers from Heidi Swapp
-Gold acrylic paint – Gold Metallic Paint Dabber from Ranger
-Grey acrylic paint – Gray Wolf from Martha Stewart Crafts
-Gold and cream damask print washi tape
-White tulle trim
-Fringed blue and grey trim
-Wide gold oven weave design trim
-Yellow painted metal flower charm – Timeless Memories Metal Trinkets from Recollections
-Grey marker/felt tip pen (used for journaling)
-Dimensional foam, pop dots, or similar to elevate some of your layers
-Adhesive, such as a tape runner, of your choice (I often use my Scotch Tape Glider)
The journaling on this layout says: “My maternal grandma, Bernice J. Schill, was born on October 14, 1930, in Dawson, Yukon, Canada. By total coincidence, 74 years later, in 2004, Tony and I married on that same special date.”
One day, three importance celebrations
My grandma’s 90th birthday is unquestionably the milestone highlight of October 2020. Interestingly, and coincidentally, however, it is not the only special event that falls on the 14th of this month.
That date also happens to by the birthday of my dear Uncle Bill, as well as mine and Tony’s wedding anniversary. Plus, just two days later, my beautiful sister’s birthday returns as well.
As you can imagine, traditionally, this has made for a week of ample family gatherings, celebrating, and feasting.
Especially when you consider that, when it falls on the latest possible date that it can, Canadian Thanksgiving technically takes place on October 14th once every few years.
Talk about one full and exciting date!
None of those events are going to unfold this time around they usually would.
Yet, much as with my Grannie’s birthday, we’ll do what we can to honour the spirit of these meaningful occasions and (especially) the loved ones who are at the heart of each important mid-October event.
Right here and now though, as the 10th month of the year gets underway, I must dash. 90th birthdays come but once in a lifetime and I’ve got a festive card to whip up and mail out. 😊
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Really beautiful layout, love the colours.
You’re splendidly kind, dear Anesha. Thank you very much.
I adore this colour palette, too. Fall’s hues are my favourite of any season and, I’ll readily admit, I sometimes have to consciously tear myself away from using little more than then all year through. 😄
Wishing you a fa-boo-lously lovely Halloween season! 😘
♥ Autumn
Your grandma is beautiful, like your scrapbook layout. So sad when occasions like this can not be celebrated.
Thank you deeply, sweet Donna. How right you are. So many of us have opted to be extra safe and not celebrate with our loved ones for even the biggest occasions this year.
In skipping them, one can only hope that we’re helping to ensure more of us will be there for future birthdays and other special events. 🙏
I really appreciate your comment (it’s always terrific to hear from you here) and hope that your October is going beautifully.
♥ Autumn
What a wonderful tribute to your Grannie. What an interesting life she had, even if at times it was touched by tragedy. A true survivor celebrating a true milestone birthday. Your scrapbook page is a triumph, and goes a long way to make good the rather subdued birthday celebrations! xxx
You’re wonderfully sweet, dear Ann. Thank you very much. I adore and am touched by how you described my grandma as a “true survivor celebrating a true milestone birthday”. Eloquently and beautifully stated.
Immense hugs & joyful wishes for the tail end of October,
♥ Autumn
90! Wow. Grannie deserves your artistic effort. I hope we all reach that age.
Thank you so much, dear Ally. How right you are! May we all be so fortunate and blessed as to reach nine (or more!) decades of life.
♥ Autumn
WOW what a stunning page!! I love the autumn colors and all of the textures, such a beautiful picture of your grandmother too!
Hugs, Tammy
Thank you very much, lovely Tammy. You’re wonderfully kind!
I adore this photo of my grandma, too. While she and I don’t look all that alike, I see some other relatives in her face here big time and that always warms my heart – as does thinking about the what an incredibly inspiring, strong, and determined woman she’s always been throughout whatever life has thrown her way.
(Interestingly, save for forehead that runs through my paternal side, the only relative I’ve ever known or seen a photo of that I looked a bit like was this grandma’s own mom, my maternal great-grandma.)
Wishing you a thoroughly wonderful tail end of October!
♥ Autumn
That is a lovely tribute to your amazing Grannie! She sounds like such an incredible role model. I know, October is my own birthday month, plus my two eldest nieces have birthdays within weeks of mine. My mom loves to have the whole family over…I’m really not wanting to do it this year, even though she does – my brother’s family is very diverse and they aren’t as careful as I would like with their bubbles/masks/distancing.
Thank you so much, my dear friend. Happiest birthday month wishes to you and your nieces.
If I could have picked the month in which I was born, it would be October all the way (alas, while I was conceived in October, I entered the world on a blazing hot mid-July day back in 1984). You can’t choose your birth month yourself, but you can usually decide when you tie the knot, which is why Tony (who also loves fall) and I opted to get married during the 10th month of the year.
I really appreciate each and every one of your recent comments and hope to catch up on more of your own awesome latest posts in the not too distant future.
Scores of hugs & joyful Halloween season wishes,
♥ Autumn
A wonderful layout for a wonderful lady Autumn, she sounds like she is enjoying life to the full, my Mother turned 92 in June but unfortunately she had the dreaded dementia and therefore did not enjoy life as much as she might had done. Unfortunately she passed away in September but it was a peaceful passing and I am sure she is now happy that she is with my Dad. I wish your Grannie many more years of happiness and independence and I’m sure that you and the rest of your family will make her special day one to remember even in these strange times.
Pauline – Crafting with Cotnob
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Thank you very much, dear Pauline. I am tremendously sorry about your mother’s dementia and her recent passing. What a profoundly heartbreaking experience to endure at any point in time, but all the more so in light of the highly challenging year that has been 2020.
I can, in part at least, relate to what it’s like to watch someone near and dear to you endure the ravages of dementia. My MIL had early-onset Alzheimer’s which, heartbreakingly, led to the stroke that took her life in 2013.
Please know that my thoughts, support and understanding are with you and your family as you grief and process your mom’s passing. I am always just an email (autumnzenithwitch@gmail.com) away if you ever need or walk to talk privately with someone about anything that you’re experiencing or feeling.
Immense hugs,
♥ Autumn
It was so lovely to read about you Grannie. I hope she has a lovely birthday. Reading this reminded me of my Grandma. She lived on her own until she passed away aged 101. She was a wonderful women I think she had a few things in common with your Grannie. Love Dawn x
Aww, thank you so much, Dawn. I really appreciate your touching comment and learning that you feel our grandmas share points in common. I don’t doubt it for a moment. A lot of women from their generation were tough as tails, resourceful as all get out, and full of vim and vigor throughout their whole lives. The world will lose much when the last people more in the 1910s – 1940s have departed this realm.
Scores of hugs & joyful wishes for the last week of October coming your way,
♥ Autumn
What a wonderfully sweet and thoughtful gift to honour your amazing Grannie who has proven to be a warrior of life. I am in awe of all that she has overcome and how she continues to thrive. I wish her the happiest of birthdays and many more to come!
AND… I want to thank YOU for all your kind and encouraging comments on my blog posts. It means so much to me. Looks like a whole lot of celebrations (with physical distancing safeguards) is about to happen, so I want to kick it off by wishing you and your family a happy Thanksgiving! Enjoy your weekend!
Trina 💙
Trina, you are such a gem of a person. Thank you in turn SO much for your own beautiful comment here and for each supportive, awesome message that you bless my blog with.
It warms my heart to know that you’ve been able to connect with some of your loved ones in a socially distanced manner this month. With masks all around and in wide public spaces, just in the last few weeks, my husband (Tony) and I have visited with my mom again for the first time since early March. It’s been nothing short of incredible and I hope dearly that we’ll be able to continue to safely, socially distantly visit from here on out (just as I hope you’ll continue to be able to with your family as well).
Many hugs & the happiest of Halloween season wishes,
♥ Autumn
That is such an amazing and stunning tribute to a beautiful lady and role model. Living to reach the age of 90 is indeed a momentous occasion. I hope that you enjoy all of your celebrations this month!
Debi
Thank you so much, my sweet friend. It truly is a momentous occasion – and such an inspiring one as well. Not all of us will be fortunate enough to make it into our 90s, but getting to know people firsthand who have been so lucky is a true blessing unto itself.
Many hugs & the very happiest of fall time wishes,
♥ Autumn
What a stunning tribute page for your Grandma. She’s a beauty. I’m sorry for all her suffering. She sounds amazing!
Thank you deeply, my caring friend. She really is a dynamite woman, a loving family matriarch, and still one of the (non-pro) tennis players I think Canada has ever produced. 😊
I really appreciate your touching comment, Anita. Thank you again.
Happiest last week of October,
♥ Autumn
Beautiful page for a special lady, love all the little details. Thank you for stopping by my blog. Emmax
Thank you very much for the visit – I’m constantly on the look out for new-to-me paper crafting blogs and was delighted to recently discover yours.
Many thanks in turn for your visit here and for saying such sweet things about this LO. 😘
Big hugs,
♥ Autumn
This layout is absolutely stunning! I love that you’ve kept the Vintage feel of it with your grandma’s photo and the Autumn feel of the colors is perfect for it too! What a wonderful tribute to your heritage!! TFS!! HUGS
You’re tremendously kind, dear Vicki. Thank you so much.
This page marries so many of my greatest loves – family, fall, history, and paper crafting. It really means a lot that you picked up on these interwoven passions.
Sending scores of hugs & the happiest of Halloween season wishes your way,
♥ Autumn
What a gorgeous tribute! This is amazing!
xoxo
-Janey
Thank you so much, my dear friend. 🙏🥰
I’m more than a little bit smitten with the colour palette here. I can easily see reaching for it again not only for future crafting projects, but as a point of inspiration for fall ensembles and home decor alike.
Big hugs & the absolute happiest of Halloween season wishes,
♥ Autumn
She sounds like a fantastic grannie, can’t we share her? 🙂 And she really deserves a beautiful autumnal card like this one. I hope you celebrate her properly later on, when the world becomes almost normal again. Have a lovely day, dear. 🙂
Aww, what a heart-touchingly beautiful comment. I’d happily “share” her with you, if I could – she’s a social soul by nature and would surely love to meet one of my oldest standing and dearest online friends.
Thank you so much, Sanne. I hold fast to that hope as well.
Tons of hugs & joyful Halloween week wishes (our favourite holiday is finally upon us again – yay!!!).
♥ Autumn
What a beautiful page honoring your Grannie. She sounds like a very special lady and I hope she’ll have many more years to come!
Thank you so much, dearest Inky. You are sweeter than any birthday cake could ever be.
I truly wish that as well. She has lived the longest of any of her immediate family (parents, grandparents, and siblings), in most cases by a sizable number of years.
We are all hoping to no end that in ten years’ time, we’ll be toasting to her 100th (and beyond!).
I also find it optimistic + encouraging to see her reach this age and to watch her surviving children (my mom and her younger sister) both remain in really positive health and physical shape as they start to transition from mid-life to seniorhood.
Maybe, with a good dose of luck thrown in for good measure, those things will bode well for myself and both my siblings and cousins as we continue to age as well.
Thank you again. May you have a fa-boo-lously delightful Halloween week! 🎃
♥ Autumn
Outstanding piece, Autumn and a very beautiful and Happy Birthday to your Grannie .. what a life she’s led and remarkable things she’s lived through. I really appreciate you sharing this with us and your writing is always a pleasure with which to engage!
Donna W
https://donnadoesdresses.com
Thank you wholeheartedly, my very dear friend. Your kindness radiates as brightly as 90 birthday candles atop a cake for my grannie would.
Very true! While 1930 – the year in which she was born – no doubt shares more in common with 2020 than, say, 1820, it’s still say to say that the world is a radically different place now compared to when my grandma was born. More than could ever be measured or recorded has changed and technology has come to dominate the landscape to a greater degree than ever before.
From a world that had only just seen the first talkie motion picture a few years prior to one in which we carry the ability to watch movies in our pockets all the time, it almost hard to believe just how much someone who is ninety (or older) has lived through and witnessed over the course of their lifetime.
I feel extremely blessed to have been there for 36 years and counting of my grannie’s life and to have been fortunate to hear many of her stories and takes on life, as well as to learn and be continually inspired by her strength and perseverance.
If I should have the great fortune to make it to the same age one day, I know, beyond a shadow of a doubt, that it will have been made possible in part by all I learned from, and admire(d), about this wonderful woman.
Huge hugs,
♥ Autumn